Board Thread:Questions and Answers/@comment-5879271-20140209173719/@comment-5137743-20140211063633

No one, I believe and trust, is asking Jay to be anything other than she is - fiery, committed, occasionally painful but an overall asset of a high order to the wiki. This is, for me at least, not related to her RL persona, it's about what works and will work for the wiki going forward. The need is for her to channel her imagination (because we are none of us our chars, which is kind of the point) into a greater range of options on one front. Nobody's suggesting she will, or should, master with a thought the craft of RPing a male char or straight female char overnight, anymore than those among us who are straight playing LGBT look 100% plausible to anyone who is, but the refusal to even participate, the need to have an entirely own, safe space with separate rules, this sets a worrying precedent, from my perspective.